“Many are the plans in the mind of man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.” -Proverbs 19:21
My friend Heather just lost her husband Ray after a three-year battle with brain cancer. Knowing she was a “cave dweller”- one who would rather lick wounds privately, I wanted her and the kids to be able to avoid the crowds. I wanted to protect them from the hard emotions they would come across throughout the services.
With the complications of Covid, Heather had a little more leeway about planning the burial.
I happened to be with her when she was making the decision about when to have the wake and burial. My vote was from 11am to 1pm. My reasoning? It was too late in the morning for people to go to work late and too early in the afternoon for people to leave work early. Genius. People won't be able to make it to the visiting hours. It will be quiet and the suffering will be minimal.
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